"so-called" love

Question: ..... Should you change or make someone change for the simple fact of "so-called"love?

I was having a conversation last night with a man who was in love with a girl who loved him as well, but wanted him to change some habits. He did work for the relationship by trying to change, but said that her nagging got old after awhile. hmmmm.....Love? or "so-called" Love?

I am so sick of people trying to change who they've become for love. Come on people! The person that you are supposed to be with for the rest of your life should love you for who you are! Yes, there will be things that are bothersome, but if you love the person those "things" should become blurry so that you are able to look past them. I understand that a person might grow in a relationship by changing for the better and someone might change interests, thoughts on certain issues, etc, BUT... I'm talkin about personality and characteristics that define someone. Why would someone spend the majority of their childhood trying to find themselves when they are not going to be strong enough to stand up and be proud of who they've become?! Bottom line, if someone who is supposed to be your significant other wants you to change who you are, RUN! There is someone in this world who will LOVE you for all of the characteristics you have chosen to define yourself.

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Hi everyone! I am a new blogger. My sis talked me into this...I am assuming I will enjoy it considering that talking and writing are two things I am good at. :) I am pursuing my degree in communications with a concentration in Television Broadcasting. With this said, I am going to use my blog as practice for my reporting. So I hope you enjoy my stories! Feel free to give your opinion!

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